I met with OKcupid boy #5. Yikes.
I guess I should've been tipped off by his random obsession with juggling - that's really a majority of what he talks about. But he still seemed nice and so I thought I would give him a chance. So we went out to lunch today. And he told me about how he loves art school because he can incorporate porn into his projects. He then went on to describe these projects in graphic detail. Gross. Why would you tell a
girl that you're meeting for the
first time about how you used some vagina pump porn (I don't even know what a vagina pump could possibly be and I don't think I want to know) for one of your school projects?
I never thought I would say these words, but I was so glad that I had to work on a Sunday today. At least I had a reason to keep lunch relatively short.
Stupid soulmate going to India and leaving me here with the likes of these guys.
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Ok, this guy gets a visit from the Secret Guy gang for tossing out for all the world to know - our super secret school project!
Yeah. It's ...um... very anti-social behavior.
Not all of us are like that! (Why does it always feel that a nice guy -- a real nice guy, not the OKcupid type of nice guy -- gets to combat all these challenges left by those other guys? It just makes for so much work to clean up after them.)
-- Ah. There you go, you've moved on from the 'hating' your soulmate part to blaming him.
@uwrote - Aren't those part of the 7 steps of grief or whatever - anger, blame, denial, yadda yadda, acceptance? Something like that...? And I never hated him. I was just kind of hurt because I like him so much and his actions kind of made it seem like maybe he didn't feel the same way. Or at least didn't like me as much as I like him.
@hopelessromantic - I guess it is but I was grabbing at something to keep that flame alive. What I read felt very angry so I latched onto 'hate' as the emotion you were feeling. I honestly think he didn't think before he text and what the possible repercussions a text over voice call would be for you. I don't know him but from what you've described, it sounded like he likes you as much as you like him.
Don't give up hope. (It'll break my heart to see it is not possible. I mean I've been searching a while -- this gives me hope too!)
I also find it funny to have this conversation under the Blog Entry title 'Pervert'. But then again, I'm a sick individual too.
Oh come on. Smile already.
Wow, uh... k.
There are a couple of things I think a vagina pump COULD be. It could be a machine designed to exercise your kegals, or it could be a machine designed to enlarge the labia/clitoris (or tighten the vaginal walls).
Or, other than that, I have no idea.
How awkward.
Anyway
k."
It's DABDA - denial, anger, bargaining, depression, acceptance, and according to Kubler-Ross(?), EVERYONE goes through this process when losing ANYTHING, so you certainly (according to her) went through it.
The internet version: "No. Srsly? Damn. Can't u just...? No?
@uwrote - Nice guys. Lol. Look love, it's not that women like assholes, it's that we like confidence. So don't worry about the nice guy thing, be nice, just be confident as well.
@itiscomplicated - Doomed! I'm Doomed! No. Just kidding. I will take your advice to heart next time. (If there is.) (I mean when there is!)
Weird....NOW I want to know what the damn vagina pump is!
India ? where.. btw i live in india ..