A few weeks ago, men, I stumbled upon a surefire way to get any girl you want. Be like this guy:
Now, you're probably a little confused, so let me explain. This guy was at an '80s-themed club, so of course, there is something to be said for context. But honestly, even within the '80s club context, he was pretty ridiculous. His hilarious '80s outfit, his aerobic '80s dance moves and poses, the stupid face and hand gesture that he made in every picture we took with him... And he was there by himself, which I have to admit is rather strange. But he could've had any girl in that room because he took what he was doing and he went all out with it. All eyes were on him for a large portion of the night. He exuded confidence and also showed that he had a sense of humor. And honestly, I think there's something really attractive about a guy that's not afraid to make an ass out of himself. It means I'll never have to worry about him saying "we can't do that. what would people think?!"
I suppose the toned arms and not ugly face certainly help (although what's with the "soul patch" or whatever it's called? Gross). Not all guys can look that good in a muscle shirt. But that's not the point. The point is, he didn't care what people thought of him and that automatically made everyone love him. I know I was sad to see him go when he left rather early on in the night.
And actually, I know that I started out addressing this entry to men, but I definitely think it applies to women too. Confidence is sexy for both genders. So just go for it and stop caring what other people think.
Comments (3)
=] Good entry.
I agree: confidence is the ultimate turn-on....
hmmmm
now i know where i went wrong