Continuing with my online dating experiment, I have two situations I'm kind of confused about.
1. I've been messaging back and forth with this guy for a few days now, and his messages have been friendly but he never asks me any questions. What I mean is, he answers mine but doesn't ask any that would really give me something to say in my reply to him. To me, this would imply a lack of interest in getting to know me, but then why is he messaging me at all?
2. One guy that I messaged hasn't responded but he added me to his favorites. At first I figured he was doing that to remember to write back to me later or something, but it's been a few days and I haven't heard anything from him, so I'm kind of confused. Plus I just think the whole concept of "favorite"ing people is kind of bizarre. I kind of want to message him and ask him what's up with that, but I wouldn't want to come off as
clingy...
Thoughts?
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for the first guy, he may just be shy or better at communicating on the phone or something more direct. so maybe call him up or if u see him start up a conversation and see how it goes. Are u messaging these guys on facebook, or texts? If it's facebook, then maybe text them instead so it's more direct. or just call. This has happened to me before and i found out that the guy thought i liked him, but it was just a simple message to see what's up with him and he made a sort of big deal about it, and he didn't respond to my text. I think guys sometimes exaggerate over a simple harmless message and get scared or whatever. So maybe that's what's happening here. But i would just text again and see what happens, or just call if u really want to be more direct.
good luck!
dude, just go out with one or both of them. seeing them face to face will tell you all you need to know.