I've written about kissing in the past. But I'm honestly astonished at the way some people kiss. Yesterday I went on a second date with the first guy I've met on plentyoffish. I will nickname him "the lawyer." He's nice, we get along well, but I hate his kissing style.
I just don't understand why some guys think they have to (or should) open their mouths wider than the girls' mouth. I have a pretty small mouth as it is, but this guy seems to insist on opening his wider no matter how wide I open mine. Are you trying to eat my face? I really don't understand how anyone could think that's a good idea. Your lips should be touching my lips. Not my chin and the area just underneath my nose. I don't like getting slobbered all over or feeling like you're trying to eat me. And my lips want something to touch. That's the point of kissing - my lips should be touching your lips. If your lips are wider than mine, mine have nothing to touch (or they're touching your teeth or something... gross!!!!)
But here's my question. How do you tell someone who's a bad kisser to change their kissing style? I've tried to send physical hints but he doesn't seem to be getting it. I like him, but bad kissing is kind of deal breaker for me so if he can't fix it, I don't know how much longer I can stick around...
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Well I dont think you should tell him. I think you should tell him that you want to take controll and let you be the on in charge that way he wont lie there life less but he wont try to dat your face because you wont allow him to because your in charge. If he does try it again then remind him your in charge and tell him to stop. But do it normally so he doesnt think something is wrong. Write back and tell me you think. Please!
Sinceraly,
Natalya
Tell him to play the kissing game, where he mirrors your movements exactly. That way, you're not being overtly critical.