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  • High Maintenance much?

    Ok, so I'm on day, what, 3? of my 2nd online dating experiment (on plentyoffish) and already starting to lose faith in the system. So I've sent out 8 messages, 7 of which have been read (it bothers me that you can see th…

  • Online Dating - Round 2

    In light of the recent fizzling out that occurred between myself and the 35-year old, I've decided to try my hand at online dating again. This time, however, I am not using OkCupid, I'm using plentyoffish, which was actu…

  • Memoirs of a Cheater

    This is inspired by a comment to this entry about blaming the cheater, not the the other person. The comment said this: What baffles me are the people who don't see it coming. Like they had no clue that would ever happ…

  • Reflecting

    So it's still really bothering me today what happened yesterday. And I think it's mostly because of what I briefly mentioned in my last entry about not being able to take the lead. I feel like I can't win. If I actively …

  • All About Chemistry

    Today the guy I've been seeing for a while now and I finally had "the talk" - a talk which should've happened three weeks ago but we've both been out of town. We've decided (I think) to just be friends. And I'm fine with…

  • Proof that Confidence is Sexy

    A few weeks ago, men, I stumbled upon a surefire way to get any girl you want. Be like this guy: Now, you're probably a little confused, so let me explain. This guy was at an '80s-themed club, so of course, there is …

  • Irony

    So update on the guy that asked me out that I said yes to even though I meant to say no because I don't know how to say no to people... Apparently he doesn't either! Last night I threw my birthday party at my favorite c…

  • Singles Blues on the holidays

    Valentine's day has never really bothered me. Sure, if I'm single on V-day, it can get annoying to see all the girls carrying flowers and chocolates. But really, I don't care much. It's the winter holidays - Thanksgivin…